[abfunders]

People who use the term gaslight or any of its derivatives most likely majored in feminist dance theory at a liberal arts college

You've obviously never been gaslighted or taken any courses in psychology. For those of us who have been involved with relationships of people who are gaslighters, it's extremely sad and frustrating. People who gaslight have such little self confidence and self worth about themselves, so they have to manipulate other people to make themselves have that self worth. It's a method of control, women do it to men, mothers to daughters, husbands to wives, etc, it has nothing to do with feminism or liberalism. Look it up, it's a real thing.